Do you dream of marrying a super rich or super attractive person? Do you want to be able to show off your partner, especially in public? And it’s attainable. We see it all the time, right? Really good-looking couples who make everyone around them jealous. Like Heidi Klum and Seal. 2 months after having a baby, she struts down the catwalk in a bikini.
I call these people trophy couples. They’re the model couple, the envy of everyone around them. They’re the politician and his wife, the celebrity couples. And everyone wants to be them or look up to them. If that’s your goal or your dream is to be one of those people… this video is going to show you a behind-the-scenes look of what you’re manifesting.
First, let me show you a really extreme version of a trophy relationship. Do you ever see this? A wealthy man who is recently widowed is suddenly flogged with a group of gold-diggers? Obviously, that’s not love. But for those of you who are arguing that it is… Listen, when you truly love someone, you don’t want them in public looking like a trophy.
If you were with a super attractive person, would you want him or her driving around town in a Porsche wearing the sexiest outfit on the planet? No, because everywhere they go, they’re tempting others to make them cheat on you. When you truly love someone, you want that person to be modest— not flashy. Or you love them IN SPITE of them being flashy, not BECAUSE they are flashy. You want to honor their good qualities, not exploit them. You want to enjoy their sexiness in private, not show it off in public.
If you want to show off your partner, you don’t really want that person, you want the jealousy, pride and envy that your partner ignites within others. Because that will boost up your own self-esteem or self-worth. It’s kind of a quick-fix, like a shot of tequila. Have you heard of the book, Chicken Soup for the Soul? Well this is like, shot of tequila for the soul.
But obviously right.. you’re going to turn into an alcoholic if you keep getting your self-worth from showing off your partner. A spiritual alcoholic is someone who can’t love… because they’re so dysfunctional.
So what you’re doing… by getting your self-worth from attention… is you are living off the envy of others, you’re sort of feeding off of it. Anytime you feed off of negative energy…. like jealousy or envy or egotistical pride….. that tells you that— you’re terribly unhappy deep down inside. I have clients like you… who are on the cover of GQ Magazine and Riviera Magazine and even fitness magazines.
What I tell them is what I’m going to tell you… If you eat jealousy and envy for breakfast everyday, you are going to be a jealous and envious person.And if you think jealousy and envy is yummy and delicious…. it might be because you’re so low on the totem pole…. that jealousy and envy is actually a step UP for you.
Because happy people feed off of happy vibes. And how do you know someone’s happy? They make other people happy. How do you know someone’s jealous? They make other people jealous.
So the next time you see this: a guy who LOOKS really happy surrounded by sycophants, know that he’s either pretending or lying to himself—- otherwise, he wouldn’t be doing that in public, he’d be doing it in private. And if he is doing it private, if it were truly making him happy, he would be willing to do it in public in a way that makes other people happy, not jealous or insecure.
You don’t want to be that person. Because you think you’re showing up with the paparazzi trailing you and everyone’s looking at you because you’re so attractive… but actually, they’re not admiring you… if they’re intelligent or virtuous, they’re thinking exactly what I just said, that you’re lying to yourself and they’re doubting your authenticity. Because any time you surround yourself with jealous people, anyone who meets you knows… that you’re kind of a fraud.
And if you’re not there yet, you haven’t found your trophy man or woman… this is kind of a warning to you, that those types of relationships don’t last and if they do last… you’re cursed. Because you turn anorexic, or to drugs… anything to replenish the self-esteem being eaten away by the cancer of jealousy. Kind of a harsh lesson but I want to tell you the truth before you start heading down that road.
So think about it… and if you’re on a reality TV series like the Real Housewives, millionaire matchmaker or the Bachelor—- then you should seriously contact me to coach you through the process so that you appear to others as the most sincere and grounded person in the whole bunch, not just another faceless nameless character who gets dropped by the show. See you soon!
