Are you dating someone who is very jealous or do you work for a jealous boss? My personal trainer, Richard, always dates jealous girls. He’s like, “Vicky Lee, why is that?” So I shared with him a trick— that alpha men use to attract a higher calibur woman to date. It’s called attitude.
An attitude is a declaration of your value. It states to the opposite gender, what you’re worth. So Richard is this bad-ass super athlete. He’s 22, good-looking, smart, loving, loyal– all these things. But he doesn’t have an attitude. He acts like he’s normal.
Richard’s Worth:
- bad-ass athlete
- good-looking
- smart
- loving
- loyal
- 22 year old business owner
But he’s not using it to get laid. He’s just wants to love and be loved. It’s so simple. But women are not simple. They’re complicated. And the women Richard attracts see his value, they don’t see HIM.
So he’s a diamond. Developing an attitude, is like putting a price tag on the diamond. All of a sudden, you’ve declared your value.
Women who can match the value of this diamond, are going to love and see Richard for who he is— because they aren’t threatened by his value. They’re equal to him. But women who don’t deserve to be with Richard, because they have less value than him— are going to be the jealous type. Over time, the jealous types tear him down, in order to bring his value down to equal their value.
But a woman who is his equal —-would polish his diamond, love it and support it and uplift him so that his value goes up.
How do you develop this attitude to attract higher calibur men and women to date? Join one of my Success Groups!
