Introduction:
What’s it like to be the popular “It” girl or the darling of your industry… after the spotlight is no longer on you? Why do these women become needy hanger-on’s who stalk more healthy individuals? What do they get out of texting 24/7 and constantly asking for favors?
Watch this video to learn what happens to ex Playboy Playmates and former Maxim Hometown Hotties.
Ex Playboy Playmate Won’t Stop Stalking Me!
In this video I’m going to tell you what happens to playboy centerfolds and Maxim’s Hometown Hotties after their 15 minutes of fame. Do you know someone who is always at the center of a scandal, crisis or controversy?
They are self-proclaimed victims. They love to label themselves (slap on forehead name tag) the victim. They are one shining jewel in a trash heap of humanity. They are the innocent slain lamb in a crowd of Judas’s. They are the martyr. Betrayed. Back-stabbed. Lured into a trap by the 800 pound gorilla. In the movie Godzilla, they want to be teh tiny blonde maiden who everyone feels sorry for— so beautiful, so sweet, so pure— and yet now food for the corporate giants.
You have to stay away from these people and don’t engage. They are attention whores. Every interaction you have with them, they are literally handing you a knife and begging you to stab them or handing you a gun and begging you to shoot them.
They want desperately to be the 4 year old Jean Bennet Ramsey and they want you to play the role of their tall, dark, handsome, rich, older molester! They want to be your victim. They have rape fantasies.
Then they go on TV and tell the world, “I’m just a human being like you. I have feelings. I’m not just a sex object or a piece of meat. Please, don’t rape me because I’m beautiful.” But they really really want you to rape them and do it in public so that the cameras are rolling.
Here’s an example. If you run into them, you say, “Oh hi. Larry said he saw you last week and that you’re doing well.” They will immediately go tell Larry, “Larry! WHAT did you say about me???”
Larry is like, “Nothing…?” They want to turn that simple interaction into you talking behind their back. They want desperately to be significant enough that people WOULD actually talk behind their back. But alas… no such luck.
So they go around trying to get someone to rob them, rape them, beat them, oppress them, attack them in some way. Just so they can make it on the front page of the newspaper.
These extreme victims used to be gorgeous, sexy, possibly rich, privileged objects of someone’s eye. Maybe they were daddy’s girl or the darling of their industry. The “It” girl. The most popular girl in their sorority. Maxim’s hometown hottie or a playboy centerfold.
As they age and become outdated, the spotlight moves off of them onto someone younger, hotter, richer or talented. And the only way now to get the same level of attention as before— is to be the center of a terrible tragedy.
They’re looking for the same amount of attention they used to receive. And they don’t want to settle for less. And the reason they’re doing this is because they want to feel and be relevant— when they are not.
They don’t know that they’re not respected. All they know is, “Is the spotlight on me? Is the spotlight on me?” They don’t care WHY the spotlight is on them…. as long as it’s ON.
So on the spectrum of attention whores, on one end you have porn stars and swimsuit models. On the other end you have martyrs and victims. But they are the same person.
Their dark shadow side is the scapegoat. But they were once their light sunny side— which is the golden child. The extreme narcissist and the extreme victim are the same person. And as she ages, she goes from one aspect of herself to the other.
Men do this also. We see it mostly in extreme sports like surfers, skaters and dare devils.
These people are basically 2 year olds stuck in a 50 year old body. 2 year olds can’t stop shouting, “Mine! Mine! Mine!”
So if you know someone like that, the best response is no response. Do not text them back or call them back. Keep it short, simple and stick to the facts. Because they are essentially jail bait. They want you to go to jail so that they can claim to be your victim.
So every time you see them coming, just remember, “Ok, here comes jail bait!” And then you won’t get caught with them shoving your hand in their cookie jar while trying to instagram it.
