Do you want to win so bad, it makes you sick? Do you have a goal that you want to attain so much that… you feel you sick?
Well, you’re using Wishful Waiting to try to manifest what you want. That’s why it’s not working. I’m going to show you how to use Wonderfully Willing, instead.
For example, let’s say you want to win a sports championship title. So you cut out all other distractions and focus on your goal. Then you see other people winning who don’t take the sport as seriously as you do and you are seething with jealousy.
You say to yourself, “It’s ok. If I just keep trying, work harder… my opportunity to win will come.” I have news for you. That’s not work. That’s waiting. Work doesn’t make you bitter. Work expands your consciousness. Work makes you feel more worthy, not less. It doesn’t pat you on the back and say, “It’s ok. You just weren’t good enough. Next time.” That’s waiting! That’s not work! “Just keep working hard and eventually you’ll make it!” that’s not work. That’s waiting.
If you want to WAIT to get what you want, then you have to have A LOT of time, energy and money … to achieve your goal. Unless you are a trust fund baby and know the right people, you can’t win the gold medal…. UNLESS you’re willing to work wonderfully, instead of wishfully waiting.
Now instead of Wishful Waiting, let me show you how to use Wonderfully Willing. Instead of focusing on, “I’m not winning! I’m not winning! I’m not winning!” Focus on, “Why are you losing?” Help someone else who is less than you, more novice or a beginner… and help them to win. Instead of helping yourself, help someone else.
What this does is slow you down… instead of going in the SAME direction, you end up taking side roads or even going in what you thought was the opposite direction of your goal. And then you will see that the secret to working harder is working smarter. That one little tweak will win you the gold!
If you need help with this, give me a call! I will help you to make your own set of vision cards, where one side is your old negative pattern. But when you flip it over, it shows you your new positive pattern. These cards will continue to inspire you for years.