Do you want to predict the future of your love life? Do you see someone cute or you meet someone and wonder, “Gosh, is this going to work out? Should I pursue it?” In this video, I’m going to show you how you can easily predict what’s going to happen when you date someone or IF you’ll ever date them. So here’s how!

There are 3 types of people we date:

  1. People who help us cope or get by. These are 1 night stands, FSB, NSA, people we sleep with only when we’re drunk. People who help us cope in hard times.
  1. People who we live with. These are companions, such as your spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends. They are friends, partners. Together, you’re a great team, there’s mutual support and respect but not necessarily sexual or physical chemistry all the time. People who live with us in normal times.
  1. People we fall in love with. These are soul mates, the men and women we’re infatuated with  and fantasize about. We meet them on a holiday weekend in Cabo on a moonlit night. As soon as a smattering of reality hits Fantasy island… like you say, “So.. where is our relationship going?” All you hear is whoosh whoosh whoosh! The sound of their feet as they sprint towards the horizon. People who love us only in extraordinary times.

I call the first type of date—the one night stands, “Junk Food Dates.” Because it’s like eating junk food. Wish you didn’t. Made you nauseas and now your arteries are clogged shut. You don’t even wanna meet someone nice anymore, because you OD’s on the Junk food date. I call the second type of date— the live-in companions, “Pets” because there is unconditional love, but not always sex. I call the 3rd type of date– the to-die-for soulmates, “Fantasy playmates” because they’re not real. They’re a mirage and as soon as you try to prove the solidity of your relationship, they disappear.soulmate

Which one is your preference?

  • If you chose #3, chances are… you also have a lot of #1’s and you rarely, if ever have #2. People who shoot too high, also shoot too low. They go from one extreme to the other.
  • If you chose #2, chances are you rarely if every have #1 or #3. People who shoot in the middle, never leave their comfort zone.
  • If you’re #2, you feel stuck with your partner.
  • If you’re #1 or #3, you feel lonely.

Here’s what I suggest.

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IF you are a #1 or #3, a fantasy maker and a fantasy chaser—- then find someone who’s a #2. I know…. it’s going to feel very boring at first. But you know what? So is running 8 miles, but it’s sooo good for you. Because you have intensity, but you need to build longevity. Let them teach you how to be balanced. How to build the solid middle ground for a healthy relationship. You teach them… how to lose control every now and then and be sexy!

If you’re a #2, you’re a sweetheart and your’e also a golden retriever. You’re not Don Juan De Marco. You don’t smolder. You’re not dangerous. You don’t enslave a woman with your stare, you don’t make her wilt into a flower. So what I suggest is that you go out with a #1 or a #3 and LEARN. Learn, baby, learn— as fast as you can because those people are here today and gone tomorrow. So you have a short window to learn how to master sensuality and then surrender to it.

  • So for the #1 and #3, you’re never going to turn into a Housewife or househusband.
  • The #2, you’re never goign to turn into a true slut. All of you— you’re just expanding your range.
  • IF you’re a #2, your relationships with other #2’s are more exciting.
  • If you’re a #1 or #3, your rel’s with other #1 or #3 are longer.

Have fun at the sport of love and remember if you want to score more points in the wimbleton of love, I can help you! Please share this video with your friends!

Can you predict the future of your love life? Here’s how!